Every day of my life ...

• nggak perlu update kegiatanmu tiap 5 menit sekali, nggak semua orang mau tau & peduli. kecuali kalo kamu artis besar ...
• stop menggalau tiap satu jam sekali, nggak perlu semenyedihkan itu untuk dapet perhatian orang. makin sering menggalau, makin keliatan seberapa lemah jiwamu.
• marah-marah di media sosial itu lebih sering nggak bergunanya, 20% dari mereka sebenarnya seneng, 80% dari dari mereka cuma sekedar mau tau, KEPO. bijaksanalah memilih kata-kata ...
• kalau kamu nggak yakin sama pacarmu yang sekarang, nggak perlu posting seberapa kamu mencintainya, are you sure (s)he's gonna be the last? oh really? terus kenapa bulan berikutnya udah ganti orang lagi?
• kamu termasuk orang yang suka kepo profile orang? well ... peraturan mendasar: bersiaplah untuk kecewa dengan fakta yang akan kamu temukan ...
• mau posting suatu fakta atau berita, please ... confirm dulu kebenarannya. jangan buat diri kamu keliatan bego di depan orang lain.
• berlaku juga kalau mau posting kalimat pake bahasa inggris, please ... cek dulu grammar nya. mungkin kamu nggak sadar, tapi kamu hidup diantara para grammar-nazi yang bisa langsung judge seberapa begonya kamu.
• jadi orang lain cuma untuk buat orang terkesan sama kamu di dunia maya, nggak akan buat kamu lebih dihormati di dunia nyata. get a life!!
• nggak semua orang menggunakan SocMed untuk tujuan yang baik. Makin banyak orang yang berniat jahat di luar sana. jangan terlalu percaya sama orang asing, (terutama perempuan) jangan gampang dipuji ... please, yang mereka puji itu foto editan kamu yang jelas jauh beda sama aslinya. jadilah orang yang pintar!
• hormati dirimu sendiri dengan posting foto-foto yang sopan dan berprinsip. misal: berhijablah jika kamu memang berhijab.
• sebaik-baik manusia adalah yang bermanfaat untuk orang lain, mulailah dari memposting hal-hal yang bermanfaat, karena tulisanmu ... akan dipertanggungjawabkan meski kamu sudah mati.

Bold what applies to you:

You are in high school.
You dropped out of high school.
You live within 20 minutes of your best friend.
You live within 20 minutes of the last person you kissed.
You live within 20 minutes of your ex.You have been to the movies within the last week.
You have hugged someone in the last 48 hours.
You have had 3 or more boyfriends/girlfriends just this year.
You have been a designated driver.
You have broken merchandise and not paid for it.
You have played strip poker.
You are Catholic.
You are Atheist.
You recycle regularly.
You have dated a blonde.
You are friends with a redhead.
You are taller than your mum.
You have a bank account.You’ve written a check for less than $5.
You have visited the Statue of Liberty.
You have visited the Eiffel Tower.
You have visited Big Ben.
You have visited the Colosseum.
You have visited The Great Wall of China.
You have never been out of the country.
You have been a waiter/waitress.
You own a Bible.
You own something with a Pentagram on it.
You have used a Ouija Board.
You have been a witch for Halloween.
You have been a zombie for Halloween.
You have your eyebrow pierced.
You have a Monroe piercing.
You have your nose pierced.
You have no tattoos
You have more than 5 tattoos.
You straighten your hair.
You have worn a dress in the last 3 days.
You live somewhere that gets snow.
You celebrate Hanukkah.
You were at your own house last New Year’s.
You were at a bar last New Year’s.
You can’t remember last New Year’s.
You slept through last New Year’s.You have worked on Christmas Eve.
You have worked on Christmas.
You have been told ‘I love you’ by someone today.You were told by someone who’s not family.
You slept in your own bed last night.
You are wearing a necklace right now.
You are wearing something red.
You are wearing something blue.You are wearing something purple.
Your phone number ends with an even number.
You have kissed the last person you called/texted.You are currently listening to music.
You are waiting for something.
You don’t like seafood.
You have eaten deer sausage.
You have given a complete stranger your phone number.You have been hit on at work.
You have been hit on by someone more than 20 years older than you.
You have been whistled at.
You have been creeped out by it.
You were dating someone in December of 2008.You are still dating that person.
You have cheated on someone.
You have been cheated on.You have been on a cruise ship.
You have camped out in your own backyard.
You are wearing something that doesn’t belong to you.
You are a Pisces.
You are an Aquarius.
You are a Leo.
You wonder what will happen when you die.
You are afraid of the dark.
You have been told you have nice handwriting.
You have had a song written for you.
You have had a picture drawn of you.
You have curly hair.
You are wearing a watch.
You are wearing flip flops.
You wouldn’t date someone who smoked.
You know someone with the same birthday as you.You slept in past 10 am today.
You have big plans for next weekend.
You are thinking of someone right now.
Your job is stressing you out.You don’t have a job.
You have never had a job.
You were fired from your last job.
You know sign language.
You will usually try something at least once.
You have been swimming in the last month.
You are pessimistic by nature.
You have taken a ballet class.
You have taken karate.
You have taken gymnastics.
You wish on shooting stars.
You wish at 11:11.
Your birthday has already come this year.
You have been in a relationship that lasted longer than a year.You ended your last relationship.
Your ex ended your last relationship.
You aren’t over your ex.
You have gone after someone you knew was bad for you.You were/are a teenage mom.
You were named after someone.
You like your name.
Your last drink was water.
You have visited somewhere said to be ‘haunted’.
You have skipped school just because you didn’t feel like going.
You have taken medicine when you ‘feel a headache coming on’.
You have a hangover.
You have a pet fish.
You have had a Jehovah’s Witness show up at your house.
You have godparents.
Your parents are still married.
You have step-siblings.
You are the oldest.
You are adopted.
You have a twin.
You don’t want kids.
You want more than four kids.
You have a bad temper.
You usually make the first move in an intimate situation.
You have made out with a complete stranger.
You have worked with a Kayla.
You have gone to the movies with a Jared.
You have hugged a Lexie.
You have held hands with a Marcus.
You have dated a Rachel.
You have broken your arm.
You have had to get stitches on your face.
You have had an MRI.
Your fingernails are painted.
You like to draw.
You like to sing.You can play an instrument.
You keep a lot of secrets from people.
You don’t think people would accept you if they really got to know you.
You don’t trust people easily.
You borrowed something you really need to give back to someone.
You drive a car older than a 2002.
You have lost a friend you never thought you would.
You know a child who died of cancer.
You know a teenager who died in a car wreck.You have done something illegal in the past 24 hours.
You have cut your hair in the last week.
You wear glasses.
Your favourite season is Autumn.Your favourite colour is orange.
Your favourite animal is a dolphin.
You last rode in a car with a relative.
You last rode in a car with a girl.You last rode in a car with the person you are dating.
You regularly watch Asian dramas.
You love Chinese food.
Your best friend is older than you.
You have to go to school/work tomorrow.
You answered every question truthfully. > the ex? no.

Be positive when you start writing!

tulislah apa yang ada di pikiranmu, jangan takut duluan tulisan kamu jelek, membosankan, dan dihambat pikiran pesimis lainnya. karena itu yang membuat ide besar di kepala kita terpenjara oleh kekhawatiran diri sendiri.
membacalah ... menulislah. negara ini butuh banyak penerus dengan ide dan pemikiran cemerlang, bukan mereka yang banyak bicara -kesannya- baik, tapi dengan pemikiran kosong itu.
menulislah, bagikan ilmu kepada orang lain.
menulislah, dan jadikan dirimu bermanfaat dengan membagi ilmu baik pada orang-orang di sekitarmu.
menulislah, meski tulisanmu di pagi hari hanya tiga buah kata singkat, (tetapi penuh makna kebanggaan & harapan besar):

"Selamat pagi, Indonesiaku ..." 

jadi, ceritanya baru aja selesai baca terhipnotis 1 lagi karya beliau, judulnya: Berjuta Rasanya. ada 15 cerita pendek tentang rasanya mencintai, cerita cinta dari para pecinta. paling suka baca cerita Kupu-kupu Monarch. Agak excited yah waktu baca tentang Monarch's day atau dikenal sebagai the Day of the Death. Setelah search di google ternyata memang ada, Hari Monarch. Di Mexico sana, setelah Halloween sampe tanggal 2 November, ada sebuah fenomena dimana ribuan kupu-kupu Monarch itu muncul dari balik hutan dan terbang kesana kemari di sekitar taman bunga, dimana para keluarga yang 'ditinggalkan' sudah berkumpul atau berwisata di situ. iya, jadi ... kupu-kupu tadi dipercaya adalah para jiwa yang telah pergi, dan kembali setiap 1 tahun sekali dalam wujud kupu-kupu bersayap jingga cemerlang. kira-kira begitu.

... Nampak dari luar, kita sepertinya orang-orang yang pragmatis, tidak memuja sebuah proses cinta yang agung, tidak juga terlalu menyederhanakan prosesnya, kita sedang-sedang saja. Tapi, jauh di sepotong hati yang tersembunyi, kita memendam kerinduan pada sesuatu, seseorang ...

cinta sejati tdk pernah datang dari satu-dua kejadian... satu-dua kalimat... cinta sejati adalah konsistensi dan komitmen panjang... dan kau tahu, sayang... ibu adalah cinta sejati-mu ...

to the world, you might be just one person. but for one person, you might be his world

Thank you for always loving me, perwiraku ...